Tuesday, August 25, 2009blogger
Aren't you sick of all those
BIG BIG
wisdom words from my blog?
But sure enough, I
LOVE
them.
When I'm feeling negative, I will read them.
It serves as an positive energy to boost up my confidence and self-esteem.
Makes me feel that I'm still a useful person in this world.
If not, I don't really think I've the courage to stand alone.
The words " He is a disgrace to (.........), He is worse than (........), lucky he is not related to me " are still lingering in my mind.
I laughed when I heard it. But the more it appeared in my mind, the angrier I got.
Please lar.
Maybe you said it unintentionally, but you have also unintentionally hurt me. Kindness shouldn't be taken for granted.
Yeah..
People may insult me.
Maybe they do not know that I'm a human too.
I just smile through my way.
Cause' I had realised that if I quarrel with them, it will be a bad ending.
Chloe has given me a good lesson about that.
Thank you ! I'm grateful to her.
Because of that, I usually smile through or act nothing had happened when I was being insulted or bullied or I'm at the losing end.
I will give myself this thought, "What if the next moment I just die? Will arguing with that person still work?"
The answer is most probably, NO !
So what's the point of arguing? :D
You may be thinking, Changhan is afraid. Changhan is scared.
Yeah, you are right !
I'm afraid. I'm scared.
Because I believe in what goes around, comes around.
I will rather give in, walk away and have peace.
War brings anger and sorrow.
Peace brings happiness and harmony.
I will choose peace although I'm at the losing end.
You may think that Changhan does not have the courage to fight.
You are wrong !
If I'm gonna use courage just to insult or argue back, I'm insulting the word "courage".
Changhan is not a Mr. Nice Guy.
Changhan is not Mr. Perfect.
Changhan is just an ordinary guy with a dose of confidence.
You may try to take advantages of me, but I tell you this again.
What goes around, comes around.
By showing kindness, it will bring joy to you.
By showing evil, it will bring suffering back to you.
You have a choice, make a wise one :)
Everyone in the world is like crayons. Crayons - Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and have different colours, but they all have to live in a same box.
Why are we living on this earth ?
Isn't just to make life easier for others?
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